Friday, February 6, 2009

FINAL Update -- Like Mary J. Blige, I'm Tired Of All This Drama

I just want to go to the gym and get fit. Is that too much to ask?

I don't understand how drama always seems to find me. I don't look for it. I care not for it. I just want to be under the radar. I hate that I get drawn into it by just trying to do the right thing.

I found out that my trainer (ex-trainer) got fired because she sent me SIX TEXT MESSAGES in a row while I was in the movie theatre telling me all about it.

She said she had hoped that I got her message before hand. She said that she hoped that she could continue to work with me and that she was really feeling sick because of her root canal. Then she asked me if I could put in a good word for her with management saying that our sessions were professional and that we got along good.

Once the movie was over (Benjamin Button -- go see it if you haven't already) I gave her a call and told her that I was sorry I didn't receive her message on time.

She told me that she basically got fired and that when she showed up the next day, they told her she had to leave. She asked again for me to put in a good word for her. Because I felt badly about how things unfolded, I said I would and that I would call her and let her know how it went.

Fast-forward to last night circa 7pm.

I went to the gym to talk to a manager as a favour for her since I felt badly for what happened. What pissed me off at first was that they kept me waiting. For a half an hour. Talk about avoidance, since I could see that they didn't look all too busy. Maybe they were hoping I'd just go.

When I finally got in there, a guy I didn't talk to at all about the situation asked what this was all about.

I told him that my intention wasn't to get her fired but to make sure that I wasn't paying for a session I didn't have.

He looked at me blankly and said, "I don't even know what you're talking about."

At this point I would've liked to have used the WTF stamp on him. I gave him this look that was half "are you kidding me?" and half "you're an idiot." So I started talking again, this time slowly for emphasis.

Turns out he knew my name and my new trainer and asked how that was going. Haven't started with him yet, so can't say.

He told me, "Oh everything is fine with her. We just wanted to talk to her before she worked with any other clients."

Well that's not what she told me. Because if that were the case I would not be advocating for her.

The entire awkward exchange took no longer than 5 minutes. It ended with him taking a note of what was said and then he said thanks for coming in. I left feeling very weird about the whole situation. He looked at me like I was from another planet when I was telling him why I was there.

I quickly called the ex-trainer and left a message for her saying I went to talk to them but they were very unresponsive.

My friend helped me try and figure out his almost robotic stance with me. Maybe her being fired was confidential and by her telling me, it was another no-no on her part. Maybe him saying they just wanted to talk to her before she worked with any other clients was a lie because I wasn't supposed to know the end result. She may have dug herself deeper.

And I've honestly had more bullshit than I can take with that gym. I don't know why the drama always ends up finding me but I'm done. I don't want to talk about it anymore. I just want to go there and work out.

DONE!!

And sorry, but this has been weighing on my mind so Fashion Friday will have to wait a bit. Maybe the inspiration will come back to me tomorrow and I'll do a Saturday Edition.

19 comments:

Chris said...

The fact that you cared enough to do what you did says alot about your character. The truth is, if I got the call from the trainer I'd probably have told her her to go fuck off - maybe not so visciously or rude - but that would be the sentiment. I get very demanding and irritable when I pay for something and not get what I paid for.

So, we let it all go for now and move ahead - you are a good soul, treat yourself to an extra special outfit for Fashion Friday, you deserve it.

SM said...

I'm laughing because this is so what happens to me all the time. Seriously - I do something for myself and somehow I end up being the one dealing with all the drama and shit. It's annoying. I think that's why I avoid most people outside of my family and close friends.

I hope this all dies down so you can just work out. Jerks.

Matt said...

Either way, its not your problem...

or your fault.

so dont let it take away from your sleep at night.

repliderium.com said...

Sounds like a confidentiality issue and kinda confirms that this trainer (though you got on well) conducts herself in an unprofessional manner regularly. Calling a client to say you've been fired and asking said client to put in a good word is WAY over the line of professional behavior.

MarvelousMOM said...

I understand drama finding you. Seems to find me too...and for no reason! Ugh. At least you tried. You did your part. What happens from here on out isn't your problem, just hers! :)

SoMi's Nilsa said...

I echo Matt's sentiments wholeheartedly. In all likelihood, your ex-trainer was a problem child. If she mis-communicated with you, she likely did the same with management. More work than it's worth on their part - trainers are a dime a dozen.

You did your thing on her behalf, which was going above and beyond. Now, get back to your life!

egan said...
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egan said...

Please don't allow this anymore thought my little pretty. Thanks for coming to confessional today. Have a great weekend Essentially Me.

-Your Virtual Priest

egan said...

I'm glad you liked Benjamin Button. I thought it was a pretty good movie as most movies don't tend to shine a postive light on our elder population. It was a neat movie.

L said...

Oh my gosh, I don't mean to laugh and roll my eyes, but geez. I know I shouldn't stereotype, but gyms and gym people seem to attract a lot of drama, or a lot of idiots, or a lot of dramatic idiots. I hope for your sake that Yanni is cool!

EF said...

You are such a "Care Bear" in a "Sour Patch" world!

Now to keep you motivated, I heard the same thing once happened to Carnie Wilson and she just decided to quit going to the gym, and look what that got her!

egan said...

EF - bro, I'm not sure about your Carnie Wilson example. I suppose nobody wants to be like Carnie. Alright, I see your wisdom.

Jules said...

Why are there so many CRAZY people in this world?? That whole situation is just absolutely strange and bewildering and CRAZY!!!! You did a nice thing and WAY more than I would have......

Kaylen said...

Fully agree with everyone above!! You did more than you really had to and she was out of line for sending multiple text messages to you. You are not the cause of her firing and you can not be the saving of her job. She has to take responsibility.
You earned extra karma points for talking to the management though!!

PastelGuy said...

Hmm. Most people thrive on drama. Look at the TV roster - all reality TV. If they don't have their own, they have to get in on someone else's. Freaks. That's why I don't venture much outside my close circle of family either...

btw - I have wanted your Teacher Stamp so many times this week it's not even funny. Too bad we can't ue it for real.

Dexter Colt said...

Now I know that trainer deserved to be fired. Asking a client to put in a good word for you? Hell no. You do a good job and good words will be said of you.

You shouldn't have to deal with their bullshit. Ask for a refund and find a different trainer. They are a dime a dozen.

Juice said...

"I'm not very smart but I can lift heavy things...."

Button's was a pretty good flick aye.. though it did go forever an a day! Written by Fitzgerald.. is that the same Fitz as the great gatsby?

Therapeutic Ramblings said...

This is why I life alone, with an iPod.

Yoda said...

You know ... there is an upshot to all of this.

Your future trainer(s) will be aware that if they don't give 100% with you, you'll get them fired ;-)